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The following courses are available to our ministers and churches through the
Director of Missions. For more information, contact CVBA
office, 434-964-1165 or via email tlboschen@firstva.com
Professional Self-destruct: Understanding
Clergy Fatigue
Carrying Pain: Clergy Shame
Christian Self-esteem
Aspects of Forgiveness
Families and Grief
The Well-healed Church: Understanding Congregational Health
Pre-marital Seminars
Servant Leadership: Human Power and the Kingdom of God
Shame and Guilt in the Christian Life
Islam
Destructive Religious Cults and Religious Fundamentalism
Natural Church Development
Planning
Our Pastor’s Gone: Churches in the Neutral Zone
Professional
Self-destruct: Understanding Clergy Fatigue
This course examines how constant ministry to those in trauma
events affects the clergy practitioner. Issues addressed in the seminar are:
clergy burnout vs. compassion fatigue, self-sacrifice vs. self-denial, and other
self-care issues. Clergy differ from other care providers in that clergy are
frequently asked to serve the needs of the traumatized over a longer period of
time than immediate care givers bringing about the possibility of professional
fatigue. (2 hours)
Carrying Pain: Clergy
Shame
Shame is defined as the feelings of decreased self-worth that
accompany chronic put-downs originating from outside the person, usually
beginning in the clergy’s family of origin. This seminar addresses the needs
for ministers to understand the differences between shame and guilt and what
this understanding can do to increase emotional and spiritual health. How does a
rule-centered life come from shame and a grace-centered life deal with guilt? (2
hours)
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Christian Self-esteem
We will look at why some Christians have a hard time believing
that Christ’s sacrifice was as much for them as anyone else. Why do some
Christians not feel forgiven and how can an increase in healthy self-image
impact not only how one views his/her world, but how s/he believes s/he has
something to authentically contribute. (10 hours)
Aspects of
Forgiveness
This seminar looks at forgiveness as a four-task process
ending in reconciliation between offender and victim. We will examine what
happens when either the offender or victim does not want to participate in the
process and what this means for moving beyond the offense to emotional and
spiritual health. Since family-of-origin issues affect our understanding of
forgiveness, we will examine them as well. (10 hours)
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Families and Grief
We will look at the dynamic that shape grief in family units.
Are there specific behaviors and attitudes that shape how families deal with
loss? No one grieves in a family vacuum. (2 hours)
The Well-healed
Church: Understanding Congregational Health
What we will examine in this seminar is the belief that any
congregation of any type is an emotional system in which every human emotion is
shared and released. It is in comprehending the church as such a system that
genuine healing can take place once conflict and dysfunction have entered and
damaged the church family. Understanding the church as a system can also lead to
preventing congregational illness caused by conflict and dysfunction. If the
church is the Body of Christ, what does that mean in terms of church health? (10
hours)
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Pre-marital
Seminars
These four two-hour seminars are designed to accomplish three
goals:
1) to help the couple make an informed decision on whether or not to
marry;
2) if they have decided to marry, to help them build a strong healthy
relationship;
3) if they have already married, to help the couple stay that
way.
We examine power sharing, communication, expectations and roles, and
family-of-origin issues in a Biblical context. (8 hours)
Servant
Leadership: Human Power and the Kingdom of God
The goal of this course is to help church leaders understand
their place in the church as servant-leaders, that is, persons who lead by the
example of their own gifts and skills at work in the life of the church. (2
hours)
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Shame and Guilt in the
Christian Life
Jesus said, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart,
soul, mind and strength, and your neighbor as yourself. On these things hang all
the law and the prophets." A person from a shame-based system will have
trouble doing this. Frequently in the life of a shamed person, love is displaced
by the intra-personal need to appear "good," that is, worthy. When one
is trying to work out one’s worthiness by following the directive dictates of
another (clergy or laity), one can hardly be expected to love others as one’s
self. For the shame-bound believer, the Biblical statement, "We are saved
by grace through faith," becomes, "I am saved by earned worthiness
through my works." Said another way, the shame-bound believer is always
asking the question, "What must I do to be worthy?", not "What
must I do to be saved?" (10 hours)
Islam
This course is an introduction to the beliefs and practices of
the Muslim religion. (2 hours)
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Destructive Religious
Cults and Religious Fundamentalism
This seminar will delineate the similarities and dangers of,
what have come to be called, "cults," and fundamentalism. Both terms
will be defined as objectively as possible. The goal of the seminar is to help
students understand that there is something we can call toxic religion. (10
hours)
Natural Church
Development
This assessment tool is available to the churches of the
association. The DoM is trained to administer and score the assessment, and to
carry the congregation through the interpretation process as a coach. The NCD
will give the church a fairly complete picture of itself on eight different
scales of strength and weakness. (Time is undetermined based on the needs of the
congregation.)
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Planning
Long-term strategic planning can help churches find renewed
focus and energy. This program of planning involves congregational
self-assessment, a look at congregational history, identity formation, conflict
resolution skills, determining the church’s call, and the strategies to answer
the call.
Our Pastor’s Gone:
Churches in the Neutral Zone
This is a practical written document to help churches in the
transition from one pastor to the next. The interim period can be a wonderful
time of discovery and renewal as well as a time of grieving and longing. The
skills and resources needed for this daunting task are discussed in this
booklet. The Director of Missions is available to walk the congregation through
the text and through the transition period.
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